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The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) Office and the student-run organization Queers and Allies (Q&A) greeted students at a barbecue and socializing event as part of UMKC's Welcome Week on Aug. 21 at the Oak Street Residence Hall.
The LGBT Office, located on the first floor of the University Center, serves as a place to go for all students on UMKC campus....
Originally posted byDear Mary Jefferson
"... danger to their souls"?
What about the danger of diminished vision from too much bible reading?
What about the diseases missionaries bring back to the U.S. after enforcing their faith upon third-world countries?
Originally posted byMary Jefferson
You express a great deal of knowledge, but you don't express much concern about how these diseases are spread. You will note that in my first letter, I did indicate that heterosexual promiscuity is also a factor (actually, a tremendous one) in the spread of STDs. The fact is, one you, no doubt, disparage, that the only sure way to keep from having STDs, including AIDS, and unwanted pregnancies, is to be abstinent until married, then faithful thereafter. You profess to have greater affection for gays than I have. Yet, I doubt you will tell them or anyone else those simple facts. Instead, you probably prefer to distribute condoms and AIDS treatments. Pretending that condoms fix anything is an unconscionable hoax! There was an old joke about people who relied upon condoms for contraception. It went: "Do you know what they call people who use condoms?" "Parents!"
If they don't work in the case of heterosexuals, who are only fertile a few days per month, just how effective do you think they are against AIDS and other diseases which are communicable every day of the year?!?
There needs to be a change in behavior. I have shown people a way out of their trap. What, exactly, have you done to help PREVENT people from contracting deadly diseases?
I don't think your idea of love is very loving at all.
My idea of love is to show people a way out of their dilema.
My words may seem harsh to you, but I think that deadly serious problems require shocking methods to alert people of the problems they can encounter if they continue on their chosen path. It may not SEEM loving to you, but your method of sympathizing with people after they have contracted a deadly disease doesn't seem loving to me, either.
Originally posted byMary
I get some, but not all, of my information from Focus on the Family and the Family Research Council. There are numerous other organizations who are deeply concerned about the drift of society and who do research into these matters.
According to the websites for "Love Won Out" and "Exodus International," THOUSANDS of people have come out of the lifestyle. That's not to say that everyone who tries is 100% successful, but if a person is determined, there is a way, and, as I indicated thousands have found fulfillment in heterosexual marriages complete with children biologically related to both members of the marriage. Not surprisingly, formerly homosexual men generally marry formerly lesbian women.
If the two people entering the marriage were not diseased going into the marriage, they won't contract diseases from each other. If they were, their health won't be any worse in a married state than in a single one, and they might avoid contracting more or worse diseases.
Regarding abstinence education, I don't know the statistics regarding that, but I do know that the rate of pregnancy has gone down, and so has the rate of abortions. I presume the rate of STDs has, also.
There is only so much time in a school day and year. If sex-education is to be taught, abstinence education provides students with plenty of reasons and means to maintain chastity until marriage. Also, there's no law saying that people have to wait until their mid- to late- twenties or early-thirties to marry. Plenty of people have completed their educations while starting their families. It is difficult, but no more difficult than coping with deadly diseases, and is far more rewarding.
Besides, I didn't mention abstinence education, I mentioned abstinence as a practice to avoid a host of problems.
"Comprehensive" sex-education strikes me as being unnecessary. Kids learn plenty just from TV commercials. Anything they don't learn there, they can learn from myriad books on the subject. The biggest problem with TV and movies is that, while promoting licensiousness and hedonism, seldom is the downside of such behavior shown, and neither is the upside of faithful marriage anymore.
Originally posted byMary
One thing you can't argue with, though, is that, if a young man and a young woman who are not diseased pledge to be faithful to each other, and keep their pledge (otherwise known as marriage), they will not infect each other with STDs, and the children they conceive will be equally related to both of them. If, in addition, they treat each other well, they will be contented and have peace of mind, at least where their relationship is concerned. That is worth a great deal.
Meliy
posted 8/25/08 @ 9:01 PM CST